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Test Schna
Sep. 26th, 2001 10:47 pmColor Test:
Your Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others in order to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Insists that her goals and realistic and sticks obstinately to them, even though circumstances are forcing her to compromise. Very exacting in the standards she applies to her choice of a partner.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.
Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem
Eh...there's a couple of true things here, but mostly hooey.
Altruism/Egoism:
You are an empathic person.
To feel a part of humanity, and to feel good about yourself, it is important to commit acts of kindness. Kindness comes from a sincere ability to understand where other people are coming from. The most famous didactic phrase in this vein is, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Being kind and feeling "connected" to the people around you is good for your health. But don't forget that YOU deserve as much kindness and respect as the next person.
Your altruistic nature is refreshing in a world where many people only look out for "#1".
That's more like it.
Your Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others in order to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Insists that her goals and realistic and sticks obstinately to them, even though circumstances are forcing her to compromise. Very exacting in the standards she applies to her choice of a partner.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.
Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem
Eh...there's a couple of true things here, but mostly hooey.
Altruism/Egoism:
You are an empathic person.
To feel a part of humanity, and to feel good about yourself, it is important to commit acts of kindness. Kindness comes from a sincere ability to understand where other people are coming from. The most famous didactic phrase in this vein is, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Being kind and feeling "connected" to the people around you is good for your health. But don't forget that YOU deserve as much kindness and respect as the next person.
Your altruistic nature is refreshing in a world where many people only look out for "#1".
That's more like it.
