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And here I was being nice. When you put what should be a sentence into one word sentences you are implying to me that I am indeed dumb. If u can misread what I wrote then do me the favor of understanding this. I think I deserve that. You IMPLIED that i have a big ego when you said in your last little emails about....oh whats the words?....something about sending me only reviews that are nothing but stroking my ego. Funny. And you said that you neevr said anythign liek that. Huh....how very strange. Do not act like I wrote it to gain tribute. I asked several other peopel and they did not believe that in the slightest. Yes. This is just fanfiction. That is not the point. The point is you were wrong in just writing your opinion up like that. People read that and they think the worst of me. No matter if you are fragile are not things like that do hurt people. Its the way you praise it that makes YOU sound like someone who assumes only by words. I`ve seen a lot of people write in ways that sound rude but they were not. I did not judge them until I knew that. Please understand that. It is not about the fanfic. It is about how you misread a person just because of phrasing that YOU believed was demanding. That is all about that. That`s all I ever meant and I think that you could have thought about it a little more before jumping to conclusions.

>And here I was being nice. When you put what should be a sentence into one word ?>sentences you are implying to me that I am indeed dumb. If u can misread what I wrote then >do me the favor of understanding this. I think I deserve that. You IMPLIED that i have a big >?ego when you said in your last little emails about....oh whats the words?....something about >sending me only reviews that are nothing but stroking my ego. Funny. And you said that you >neevr said anythign liek that. Huh....how very strange.

Again you completely miss my point. Ego-stroking is when a person leaves a review that is full of positive things that purposely withholds negative comments that they have in mind in order to make the writer feel good. It's an act on the part of the reviewer, NOT the writer. I never said you were dumb, never said you had a big ego.

>Do not act like I wrote it to gain tribute. I asked several other peopel and they did not >believe that in the slightest.

I wonder...were these people your friends? Actually, I don't want to know.

>Yes. This is just fanfiction. That is not the point. The point is you were wrong in just writing >your opinion up like that.

You are incorrect.

>People read that and they think the worst of me. No matter if you are fragile are not things >like that do hurt people. Its the way you praise it that makes YOU sound like someone who >assumes only by words.

You posted to an open forum and willingly put your story up to be reviewed, therefore I am allowed to review it and say what I think. If you don't like this, DON'T POST TO A FORUM THAT ENCOURAGES HONEST FEEDBACK.

And don't worry about my reputation. It's in good shape and I'm not worried about it myself.

>I`ve seen a lot of people write in ways that sound rude but they were not. I did not judge >them until I knew that. Please understand that. It is not about the fanfic. It is about how you >misread a person just because of phrasing that YOU believed was demanding. That is all >about that. That`s all I ever meant and I think that you could have thought about it a little >more before jumping to conclusions.

I did not misread it. You wrote the words, take responsibility for them. It is common netiquette that to demand feedback is rude. If you're so insulted by having to deal with the consequences of the words that you KNOWINGLY posted to a PUBLIC forum, then god help you if you ever try posting somewhere that they treat these things more strictly. There are people who will flame you alive and make me look like Mary Sunshine. Try the FFML for instance.

You made it sound like you deserved reviews. You made it sound like you were demanding reviews. Whether you wanted this or not, YOU did it, not me. Any indignation you've suffered as a result is your own problem and I am done with this. Go away and I promise never to insult your dignity again.

God! And here I was being nice! You are the lowest person I have ever met in my life! I honestly hope that someday you get what you deserve! How DARE you say anything about my friends! No. Most of them where not my friends. God. You are such an unintelligent person to say something like that. You have to be the lowest form of person I`ve ever spoken to. How fucking rude of someone like you to just end it without understanding someone. I hate who you are and I hate all others like you who think that they have the highest opinions over everyone else`s. You are the worst person I have ever met and I don`t see how you thought that you were in the right. You will not admit that part of what you did was wrong which disgusts me. I have been thoroughly insulted by the way that you have handled this situation. If my friends say somethign then they are entitled to their opinion as well. If you get an opinion everyone else does too. Do you know that? I hate the kind of person that you are once more and I pity you for the person that you have become in life. I dont hate you. Do not twist those words around. I hate the person that you are because people like you make people feel bad about themselves. This is NOT ff.net anymore. This is common etiquiette. I feel sorry for the people that have you review their papers if you treat them like this. Damn...I feel sorry for everyone. I really do. The things you could have said so much more nicely and with more research...damn....Yep. I am through with YOU!!!

I don't think I've ever been so hated.

*shrugs*

I know, I know...I shouldn't have gotten into it with an immature girl who obviously has issues. But hell, someone NEEDED to say something, and the rest...gah. I was about ready to completely lose my temper there, but I suppose I brought it on myself.

I don't really have much else to say, but here's everything for those who were interested. Think good luck thoughts for my Design 104 midterm if you can spare `em. ;)

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Well, I don't hate you. It was somewhat amusing how you started off in such a light-hearted manner and in ended with such bitterness. It's also a shame that the poor girl doesn't seem to be very good at losing arguments. You had logic and common sense on your side throughout, she had... um... well, I can't think of anything right now... Anyhoo, good luck on the midterm.

Thanks. ^_^ She had screaming and fit-throwing, does that count?

The midterm went okay. I think I did fairly well, though we all were rather dead afterwards.

Sigh.
Personally, I agree with you 100% here. I know that doesn't necessarily help when there's someone who apparently wants your head on a platter, but you stayed calm and rational. She most definitely did not. And her little "I Must Have Reviews" rant was, indeed, appalling.

Thanks, Kudzita. *bonks heads* I usually don't bother with sort of thing, but I guess once in a while I need to be reminded of how glad I am to be done with middle school.

REminds me of some ppl I ran into a while back. I just laughed in their face and went on. What surprised me is she's sitting there saying that you're the one taking the "holier than thou" attitude, where in my opinion it's the other way around. "I pity the person you are" ect ect ect. If that's not a "holier than thou" attitude, I don't know what is. Chickie, here's some advice. Take your nose out of the air because you'll wind up tripping over your feet and breaking your neck. *shakes head*

*huggles Jaina* Makes you want to smack the hormonal moody little bitch, doesn't it? ^^ I love ya, Jaina!

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